100+ dilemmas sorted by category, from harmless food debates to choices nobody survives with dignity
Every dilemma below comes from the party edition deck in our free online launcher: 110 dilemmas, sorted into five categories so you can pick the intensity your room can handle. The rules take thirty seconds to explain: read the dilemma, count to three, everyone votes left or right at the same moment. Then the minority defends itself, the majority gloats, and someone changes their vote for reasons nobody accepts.
To play the interactive version, open the game launcher, pick Would You Rather, and the site deals ten cards with a vote screen for every dilemma. The list below is the full deck, category by category, for hosts who prefer to read from one page.
The safest opener category. Food and lifestyle dilemmas split every room down the middle without embarrassing anyone, which makes them perfect for the first rounds of a night.
A: Never use video streaming again
B: Never use music streaming again
A: Always be 20 minutes late
B: Always be 40 minutes early
A: Lose all your photos
B: Lose all your contacts
A: Only eat cold food for a year
B: Only eat the same meal every day for a year
A: Be famous for something embarrassing
B: Be unknown for something amazing
A: Have unlimited money but no friends
B: Have great friends but constant money stress
A: Read everyone's mind for a day
B: Rewind time by 24 hours once
A: Never take an elevator again
B: Never take a shortcut again
A: Give up pizza forever
B: Give up dessert forever
A: Live without air conditioning
B: Live without a washing machine
A: Have a pause button for life
B: Have a mute button for people
A: Know when you will die
B: Know how you will die
A: Speak every language fluently
B: Play every instrument perfectly
A: Work from home forever
B: Retire 10 years earlier
A: Have your texts read out loud once
B: Have your search history shown once
A: Fight one horse-sized duck
B: Fight 100 duck-sized horses
A: Only whisper for a month
B: Only shout for a month
A: Live in the past you know
B: Live in the future you do not
A: Be the funniest person in the room
B: Be the smartest person in the room
A: Give up your phone for a week
B: Give up your bed for a week
A: Always have to tell the truth
B: Always have to lie
A: Have hiccups every day for a year
B: Feel unstoppable sneezing every day for a year
Powers that sound great until you read the fine print. This category produces the longest arguments of the night, because everyone secretly has a strategy.
A: Meet your favorite celebrity but embarrass yourself
B: Never meet them at all
A: Only walk backwards for a day
B: Only crawl for a day
A: Have free flights forever but never a window seat
B: Pay for flights but always fly first class
A: Be able to talk to animals
B: Be able to speak to plants
A: Live with no music
B: Live with no movies
A: Have your browser history seen by your boss
B: Have your phone gallery seen by your parents
A: Be 30 minutes early everywhere forever
B: Be fashionably late everywhere forever
A: Only drink water for a year
B: Only drink soda for a year
A: Lose your sense of taste
B: Lose your sense of smell
A: Take a pay cut you choose
B: Take a random job the group picks
A: Have a personal chef
B: Have a personal driver
A: Be TikTok famous for a bad reason
B: Be a local legend for a good reason
A: Relive high school for one year
B: Skip ahead to retirement for one year
A: Have spaghetti hair
B: Have sweating maple syrup
A: Know the history of every object you touch
B: Know the future of every promise you make
A: Cuddle a bear-sized hamster
B: Cuddle 50 hamster-sized bears
A: Always have to sing instead of speak
B: Always have to dance instead of walk
A: Give up coffee forever
B: Give up snacks forever
A: Live without a mirror for a year
B: Live without a clock for a year
A: Have everyone know your browser tabs
B: Have everyone know your camera roll
A: Be the best player in a dead game
B: Be an average player in the top game
A: Receive 1000 dollars today
B: Receive 10000 dollars in five years
The middle-weight round: dilemmas about work, money and life choices where both options cost something real. Nobody stays neutral here.
A: Have your dream job with a terrible commute
B: Have a boring job from your couch
A: Only text in voice notes
B: Only text in emojis
A: Time travel to see the dinosaurs
B: Time travel 500 years ahead
A: Have a pet dragon the size of a dog
B: Have a dog the size of a dragon
A: Forget your own birthday every year
B: Forget everyone else's birthday every year
A: Have a rewind button for conversations
B: Have a skip button for bad days
A: Never wait in line again
B: Never pay for groceries again
A: Be stuck on a desert island with your ex
B: Be stuck with your most annoying coworker
A: Have all traffic lights turn green for you
B: Never wait for a table at a restaurant
A: Have perfect memory
B: Have perfect instincts
A: Only watch movies narrated by you
B: Only watch movies with subtitles forever
A: Be able to fly but only two feet off the ground
B: Be able to turn invisible but only in the dark
A: Share a bank account with the group
B: Share a group chat with your family
A: Give up social media for a year
B: Give up one meal a day for a month
A: Have a personal theme song that plays everywhere
B: Have a narrator who comments on your life out loud
A: Find out how the universe ends
B: Find out what happens after we die
A: Sleep in a haunted house for cash
B: Sleep in a mall for half the cash
A: Rename every day of the week
B: Rename every month of the year
A: Be a background character in your favorite movie
B: Be the villain in your second favorite
A: Have an unlimited gift card to one store
B: Have a 50 percent card to every store
A: Have a personal chef for life
B: Have a housekeeper for life
A: Only watch comedies forever
B: Only watch documentaries forever
Low stakes, high comedy: the dilemmas that reveal how people actually live, from wardrobe philosophy to beverage temperature ideology.
A: Be invisible whenever you want
B: Be able to read one book instantly per day
A: Never feel physical pain
B: Never feel embarrassment
A: Have free unlimited tacos
B: Have free unlimited coffee
A: Always say exactly what you think
B: Never be able to speak your mind
A: Live in a world with no money
B: Live in a world with no internet
A: Be coached by the best mentor alive
B: Have a head start of five years in your career
A: Only eat breakfast foods
B: Only eat dinner foods
A: Have a time-freezing remote
B: Have a teleport ring
A: Know every word of every language
B: Know the answer to one question per day
A: Have a pet that talks
B: Have a car that drives itself perfectly
A: Give up all sauces forever
B: Give up all bread forever
A: Be the lead in a flop movie
B: Be a cameo in a classic
A: Have your dream house in the wrong country
B: Have an okay house in the perfect place
A: Only listen to one artist forever
B: Only listen to one genre forever
A: Never queue at the airport
B: Never pay for luggage again
A: Have a photographic memory of every face
B: Have a perfect sense of direction
A: Win a raffle you did not enter
B: Find money on the street every week
A: Be fluent in sarcasm worldwide
B: Be immune to awkward silences
A: Only wear one color forever
B: Only wear one outfit forever
A: Have a job you love with a bad boss
B: Have a fine job with a great boss
A: Live without alarm clocks
B: Live without deadlines
A: Always know when someone lies to you
B: Always be believed when you speak
The closers: fandom allegiances, universe-hopping and the one question about the universe that reliably derails the conversation past midnight.
A: Swap lives with a billionaire for a month
B: Swap lives with your favorite athlete for a month
A: Have every meal delivered free
B: Have every ride free
A: Only play party games forever
B: Only play strategy games forever
A: Know one true prophecy about your life
B: Get one guaranteed wish, random wording
A: Never be stuck in traffic again
B: Never have a slow internet day again
A: Have a rewind for your own words
B: Have a preview of your own decisions
A: Only drink hot beverages
B: Only drink cold beverages
A: Be a famous author under a fake name
B: Be a respected expert nobody knows personally
A: Live where it is always summer
B: Live where it is always autumn
A: Have unlimited cinema tickets
B: Have unlimited concert tickets
A: Answer every email instantly forever
B: Never receive an unwanted call again
A: Have a personal translator earpiece
B: Have a universal charger that always works
A: Be able to pause time but not move
B: Be able to move through walls but only slowly
A: Have every book you want free
B: Have every game you want free
A: Live one life at 100 percent effort
B: Live ten parallel relaxed lives
A: Always have the perfect comeback
B: Always remember every name
A: Swap memories with your best friend for a day
B: Swap skills with them for a week
A: Have a house that cleans itself
B: Have a fridge that never runs out
A: Only attend events with great music
B: Only attend events with great food
A: Be remembered for one legendary moment
B: Be remembered as consistently great
A: Have the power to calm any room
B: Have the power to hype any room
A: Know exactly what people first think of you
B: Never know and never care
Simultaneous voting is the entire game. If people answer in turn, the first speaker drags the room and every later vote is contaminated. Count down from three and make everyone commit at once: left hand for A, right hand for B. Then give the minority thirty seconds to argue before moving on, and move on strictly. The tempo is what keeps a Would You Rather round alive for an hour.
For scoring, the cleanest system is majority points: everyone in the winning camp takes one point, first player to ten wins. For a messier, funnier night, use minority penalties instead: the losing camp answers a truth from the Truth or Dare deck, which keeps the two games feeding each other. Either way, end the session before people get tired of voting; our launcher's ten-card decks exist precisely because the natural attention span for one game format at a party is about ten rounds.